Thoughts do create our reality. A negative thought is about the past not the present moment. Byron Katie calls it recycled thoughts. It is the thought/s about our circumstances that creates the pain in our life, not the circumstance.
Believing a negative thought that is causing you pain creates suffering. We suffer because of our own thinking. And, the thoughts we believe to be true.
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Question your most painful thoughts. Those thoughts are your source of pain and nothing else. It is because of your thoughts you are suffering. Free yourself from suffering and create a new thought about your current circumstance.
What thought (negative) are you attached to this moment?
I am too fat
I don't have enough money
He/She/They never appreciate me
I am to old
My job is making me nuts
I am not smart enough
I am not good enough
I always end up with the wrong partner
I am not successful
If I was only thinner, more beautiful, more successful, lived in a better home, people would accept me.
If I only went to that school or took that job
I should of (fill in the blank)
I need to (fill in the blank)
If this never happened
I don't fit in
I am not respected
If he/she would love me
I could never do that
Do any of these thoughts resonate with you or do you come up with other negative thought/s?
When you think this thought how do you feel and act?
Do feel bad, sad, hopeless, discourage, do you become angry, do you engage in self defeating acts like eating a box of chocolates, mistreating your partner,being rude to others etc?
Who would you be without this thought (the source of pain)?
Would you feel happier and have more energy without the negative thought?
We have the power to think whatever thought we want. Go through your list of negative thoughts and see if you can replace each negative with a positive thought . Create a better feeling thought that better serves who you are today in the PRESENT moment.
Create a new thought a better feeling thought! And, set yourself free....
Discovery a new thought that feel goods and attach to it, believe it to be true. Let the new thought become your current reality!